Friday, January 02, 2009
A New Year Resolution 2009
Happy New Year! I hope that all of you had the merriest of Christmases and enjoyed the festivities bringing in 2009 with a bang. I don’t know about you. But, I’m still trying to figure out where 2008 went. As you think back over your 2008, what would you say are the most significant events as it pertains to your marriage relationship?
My most memorable marriage events were an all expense paid Cancun trip that was given to my wife and me from dear friends early in the year, our 20th anniversary trip to Puerto Rico in the middle of the year, and my decision to step down from my Director of Christian Education volunteer role at my church to spend more time at home. For me, I summarize the 2008 installment of my marriage as, “Healing in the silver lining.” For me, my marriage has been a stable and nurturing force in 2008 as I have dealt with a number of disappointments in goals that I had. When I’m down, my wife is my biggest encourager. When I feel behind in the game, she is my most devout fan. Her reassurance staves off discouragement and keeps me fighting. My marriage is my silver lining with healing properties. How would you summarize your marriage in 2008?
Over the holidays, I received my word for 2009. The word is “joy.” I must admit that this is a difficult word for me personally. My personality type is not typically associated with joy. But, I have resolved myself to pursue joyous living in 2009. I’m not quite sure how that will work. I am being prayerful to God to show me how to live with a more overt spirit of joy. I chuckle even as I say this. But, one thing is for sure. My marriage will be the backbone of this pursuit. I pray a spirit of joy upon your life and your marriage as well.
Here’s to a JOYOUS NEW YEAR!
Posted by Harold Arnold on 01/02 at 05:22 PM
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Joyful Marriage
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